Help your kids learn what healthy—and unhealthy—relationships look and feel like, starting with the playdates and hangouts they’re having now…so they don’t have to figure it all out through trial and error as adults.

The dynamics they learn to recognize in childhood friendships are the same kinds of dynamics that will show up later in romantic relationships and adult friendships. So Red Flag, Green Flag gives you 7 simple conversation prompts to help your kids start noticing those dynamics for themselves—in a way that feels natural, age-appropriate, and more like connection than lecture.

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Inside red flag, green flag:

You’ll get 7 simple questions you can use after playdates and hangouts to help your kids start noticing the signs of healthy—and not-so-healthy—friendships for themselves.

For each one, I’ll also walk you through what their answers might be telling you, including when something looks like a green flag, when it might deserve a little more curiosity, and when it could be worth a bigger conversation.

It’s all laid out for you in an easy-to-access Google Doc, so you can pull it up whenever you need it.

Just simple ways to connect with your kids and help them start paying attention to what their relationships actually feel like.

And there’s a bonus section for you, too.

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Because our kids aren’t the only ones learning this stuff!

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You’ll also get 7 questions to use with your own relationships—friendships, family, romantic relationships, or anywhere else you want to check in with yourself.

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I believe one of the most powerful ways we teach our kids what healthy relationships look and feel like is by learning to recognize—and model—them ourselves.